Problems Concieving? Try EFT!
When you are trying to get pregnant and nothing is happening it is easy to end up on an emotional roller coaster. One minute you are excited and hopeful, the next you are disillusioned and full of doubt.
Suddenly everyone is pregnant or has new babies, friends, family, strangers on the street, it’s hardly surprising jealousy and anger kick in…It can feel like your (or your partners’) body is letting you down.
It’s can difficult to think about anything else, you keep telling yourself ‘It will happen” but it can be impossible to switch the emotions off when you want a baby: You can get quite stressed about the whole thing.
Could EFT to help you conceive?
EFT for conception is all about clearing any stuck beliefs, feelings or fears that might revolve around getting pregnant, giving birth, being a parent or even the stress building up around not being able to get pregnant.
It might seem at first thought that you don’t have any concerns around having a baby and this is a great place to start tapping:
“Even though I can’t get pregnant and I don’t know why, I deeply and completely love and accept myself”
Tapping On Specific Issue
If you are focusing on the fact that you can’t concieve and that your monthly cycle is (and has always been) irregular you could try:
“Even though my monthly cycle is irregular and I don’t know why, I deeply and completely love and accept myself”
It’s not hard to begin wondering if it will ever happen when you are trying to get pregnant so this round is great for clearing the thoughts of WHY you’re not pregnant yet.
With these reasonably generic rounds completed it’s time to look a little deeper and see if there are any other aspects that surround conception, pregnancy, birth and becoming a mum.
You may have had thoughts come through as you were tapping and if so do tap on them, they are really important too.
What To Tap On.
If you are struggling why not consider the following:
- What are your beliefs about pregnancy?
- Are you scared?
- Do you feel ready to be a parent?
- Are you unsure about this next stage in your life?
- Do you feel financially ready to raise a family?
- Are you worried you will be like your own parents?
- Is your partner supportive and ready to be a parent?
- How will it affect your relationship?
- Will you cope with the tiredness and the lack of personal time?
One common issue that comes up during tapping rounds for conception is the fear created from hearing or seeing other women’s birthing stories.
Some people thrive on scaring the b’jeezus out of you with their tales of endless hours of labour, the horrendous pain and the stitch or not to stitch debate always raises it head Please remember every birth is different.
Clear Your Fear With EFT
“Even though I’m scared and don’t think I’ll cope well with the pain, I deeply and completely love and accept myself”
“Even though I don’t know if my body can handle giving birth, I deeply and completely love and accept myself”
Whilst there are many perceived fears about becoming a parent, and the whole process it is useful to remember that by clearing the negative energy around your fears, that you will have cleared the way for your mind to accept and embrace the possibility of having your baby. This allows your body to sync with the mind and create the space for that one egg to spark a new life.
I wish you sucess. Dawn.
For more information about EFT or how Maga therapy can help you please Email Me